
8/27/2009
Health Care. What Kind Of Health Care Does The NTCC (INC) Provide It's Ministers?

8/20/2009
This Is Good Information!

There are certainly some crooked people in the NTCC. This is a picture of RWD, Olson, and Kekel with his guitar. I don't know who the little dude at the bottom is? I didn't want this information tucked away in a thread with 166 posts. This is the true nature of the NTCC. Here is what you didn't know and were afraid to ask. This is the Atom Bomb of all exNTCCer threads and you can only find it on, "New Testament Christian Church, The Real Story", brought to you exclusively by the Chief Meister.
Why Do NTCC Ministers Regualarly Attempt To Defame People Who Have Left The NTCC?

I see the importance of addressing this topic for a variety of reasons. First I think it is necessary for people to understand the mindset of an NTCC minister who regularly practices slander as a means of justifying his position. Second I think it is important to learn and understand methods that can be used to "limit" the degree that NTCC ministers are able to take your own personal information and use it against you.
NTCC Folks Creating New Blogs

New blogs created by NTCC people are popping up like weeds all over the Internet which is amazing in itself because no more than 7 years ago the Internet was called the devilnet and the sinnernet by many NTCC ministers to include RWD. So I guess that God finally got on line with computers? Either that or RWD wasn't always inspired by God like he claimed. I strongly suspect it was the second. One of the most recent blogs has been created by an NTCC pastor by the name of Briggs for the express purpose of trying to convince exNTCCers to leave the NTCC alone once and for all. It is no more than a psychological ploy to encourage us exNTCCers to simply move on with our lives and forget that life in the NTCC ever existed. Let bygones be bygones, right? Did the Jews forget that 6 million of their people were slaughtered by the Nazi's during WWII? Do you think they just moved on? If someone murders one of your family members do you simply forget about it, make amends and turn the other cheek? Of course not.
I Just Replaced My Thread Numbering System With A "Recent Comments" Section Over To The Right

8/17/2009
Hodge-podge

8/10/2009
Post What Ever You Want As Long As It Doesn't Deal With The Topic Of "Fear"
I was asked to start a new thread. The sky is the limit.
Jeff
8/05/2009
Folks Are Running Scared

Thread #56 It's nice to be able to "freely" post here at all without being concerned about some NTCC creep turning us in to RWD. I could care less what RWD or anyone else in the NTCC thinks about me. NTCC pastors generally, are of very low character, (with some exceptions) so it disgusts me that I was ever interested in pleasing them in the first place. Well those days are over. Kinson and Kekel have been doing pretty much what they wanted to do all along with no real concern about retribution from the leadership and they are in the NTCC. How much less should I be concerned now that I am out? Of course everyone knows I'm not concerned but I figured that I would throw that out there just the same.
8/02/2009
What Direction Are You Heading? Allow Yourself To Think About It!

I spent almost 20 years of my mortal life in NTCC being worse than an infidel. If I live to 80, this is almost one fourth. I could have died lost in sin.
Like you Jeff, I have not allowed my time in NTCC to debilitate me. I owe it to God—and my family, present (my NTCC friends have all forsaken me) and future friends (so I won’t be a burden to them)—to maintain my motivation (and drive to succeed in reversing the damage) high, and to keep my attitude right so I can avail myself of all the opportunities God has been presenting me with. The iron is now hot and I must strike while I still have my health and some youth left.
For the NTCCer, as they approach the end of their days, when they have stayed in NTCC long enough for it to be too late for them to reverse the deprivation, they will have nothing. In most cases no children to help them when they are old, no substance to help themselves when they are old, no friends that can help them (because they are in the same boat), a church that does nothing substantive or lasting for them, multiple marriages in their wake, poor health, bad teeth, no home, junky car, no more opportunities...no hope. Lonely, alone, scared, and seething from their wasted life and missed opportunities.
Public assistance, national health care, food banks, thrift stores, public transportation, unhealthy food, et cetera, will be their lot. Will there even be any Social Security in another few years? What will the Ministers that opted out of Social Security do? The husband may be able to go to the VA but the wife likely won’t (if she is not prior service). If a person manages to save $50,000 by the time they are too old to make any more money (or Pastor), this will yield $1,000 per month for 4 years and 2 months.
The NTCC life is a life of missed opportunities, shattered dreams, and squandered substance; the owner of which the Bible classifies as worse than an infidel. Since they won’t be able to reverse this they are condemned to dying as an infidel (worse). They didn’t take care of their family, themselves, sinned against knowledge, their own better judgment, will be held accountable, and can only rightly blame their own self.
God has delivered me from my NTCC life of NTCC compromises, NTCC misdirection, NTCC sleight-of-hand, NTCC double standard, NTCC’s bad example, and never fulfilled NTCC promises of God’s blessing just around the next corner. I have been given another chance, and for this I am grateful to God. A chance that was impossible for me to take advantage of until I pried NTCC’s hands of avarice from my life; which I also allowed to attach to my family, potential, substance. Chances no one can take advantage of while a part of NTCC.
pdq (who morns for those in NTCC)
7/25/2009
Seeking The Truth

I thought about this whole abuse thing again and your statement that I quoted above. You are actually right; it does go deeper. Right before my family left the NTCC for good pastor Oberhauser made two notable statements during church service. He said "some of you won't allow me to pastor you." Then he said and I quote, "someone told me that I am too nice and I need to be more rude."
Jeff said...
First thing: Who ever told him he needed to be more rude had to a leader senior to him. NTCC pastors generally don't receive pastoral advice that they are willing to implement if it does not come from a senior leader. This guidance that Oberhauser was given had to come from an overseer or Kekel or Olson or RWD or a senior pastor such as Kinson. Which ever the case Oberhauser was effectively told to become abusive because that is exactly what being "rude" is.
I don't allow people to be "rude" to me and my family and continue to put up with it if I have any other choice. And guess what? That is exactly what Oberhauser did but the more proper description of the metamorphosis that he displayed was turning from someone who was nice into an abusive jerk. The way he treated Sis Haynes was totally unacceptable. Concerned Minister: He was told to act that way by someone in the NTCC leadership.
It was definitely taught and I have seen the same thing take place before with 5 other NTCC pastors and I witnessed the occurrence with my own two eyes. The only difference is that some of these guys didn't go through a metamorphosis. They showed a consistent pattern of being abusive jerks all alone.
Concerned Minister: Someone does not have to give you a verbal directive for you to be taught something even though that was the case with Oberhauser. You are being taught something every time someone suggests that you follow the "example" of other leaders. That is regularly taught in the NTCC. Everybody wants to be like RWD or Kinson or Jones or Olson and so on.
The reason there are "so many" abusive ministers in the NTCC is because it is a common occurrence and therefor "copied by many."
Everything I have written is a "FACT" Concerned Minister and can not be disputed.
Jeff
How To Spot An Abusive Church
Thousands of Christians have given up on going to church because of the spiritual abuse they have suffered as part of another congregation, says a pastor who offers warning signs that a pastor may be too controlling.
In "Exposing Spiritual Abuse," Mike Fehlauer says that the problem is "rampant and more widespread than we have wanted to believe," and relates several horror stories of the way some pastors have exercised inappropriate power and control over their church members.
In his Charisma House book, Fehlauer tells of a West Coast family told off by their pastor after going on a vacation without first getting his permission. The rest of the congregation was ordered not to talk to the family for a period of time, during which the children were not allowed to play with other youngsters in the church.
In another church, a young woman was told that she should not date her boyfriend because he attended a different church, and a man was told that his wife had not been accepted for the worship team because she was too fat and did not meet the unspoken " 5-7-9 " rule, referring to the dress sizes acceptable for singers.
Such stories are "much more typical than any of us would like to admit," Fehlauer writes. "The sad truth is that many churches today struggle with varying degrees of control, which can lead to devastating abuse if not corrected."
That abuse has resulted in "untold thousands of wounded and disillusioned Christians who believe they've been burned by the one institution that was supposed to help them." Many turn their back on the church for good, he adds.
The pastor of Tree of Life Church in New Braunfels, Texas, Fehlauer outlines the key warning signs of an abusive church, including "power positioning" where the pastor starts to take the place of Christ in people's lives, the demand for unquestioned authority, and an atmosphere of secrecy.
Other "red lights" include an elitist attitude that discourages members from attending other churches, an emphasis on "performance," motivating members by fear, and difficulty in leaving on good terms.
7/18/2009
Be Careful When You Say, "God Told Me..."
I want to share an incident that happened to me and my family not long before we decided that we were no longer going to attend NTCC. We had come back to the home church for reasons that I don’t wish to discuss, but in that time I began to notice how different things were in the home church.
My son had gone to talk to some of the teens after service while waiting for us to finish fellowshipping with other ministers and their wives. We went home as we normally did, only to get home and receive a phone call from Rev. R.W. Davis saying that he wanted to speak to Andrew. I said sure and handed him the phone. I heard some of the conversation from my son’s response and began to wonder what was up. Andrew hung up the phone and came up to me with this question. “Does God lie?” To which my immediate response was, “NO!” I asked him why he asked. His response to me has stuck with me to this day...He said, Mom, Rev. Davis said that God told him I said this and did that.” I said did you admit to it? He said No because I did not do it. I told him don’t ever admit to something that you did not do, even if someone says God told me.
I left this organization not long after this incident. Many might ask why you would leave after belonging to this organization for 25 years. My reply is simple…If you as a minister of God missed what God was really trying to tell you in something so small, how can I trust your judgment with my life? There is no way in Hell that you can tell me anything from this point on. The Shepherd is supposed to watch after the flock."
7/17/2009
What's Up Homeboy?

Thread #49 Here’s the story folk’s. This picture was posted on Mike Kekel's blog. What interesting about these pictures is that they show a pattern developing within the NTCCs hierarchy. With RWD being quite old now, Kekel has become the new captain of the ship. Kekel is perpetuating a new notion of a new kinder gentler NTCC than was previously taught by RWD. This picture shows an image of a young NTCS graduate acting like one of the homeboy’s back on the block. Is that actually a big deal? No of course it is not. The guys are having a little fun and they should be, after all they went through at the NTCC school of rules. The problem is RWD would not have previously advocated that type of conduct. The guy's cap is tipped backwards while he throws up the old sign with his lips clenched. He reminds me of one of the homeboy's from the hood. RWD and his ministers have always taught that is creating the appearance of evil. Is there actually a problem with the guy having fun? No, of course not, but why did Mike Kekel choose to post "that" picture when RWD has never approved of such conduct? Because Mike is trying to show NTCC folks what the standard is, while creating the impression that things have been like that all along. We all know they haven't. RWD never ever advocated or condoned someone acting like one of the homeboy's and he certainly wouldn't have allowed it to be posted on the internet.
7/11/2009
Overcoming Post Traumatic NTCC Disorder By LaQueshia Jeffries
Thread #48 First admit that you have a problem.
Speaking from personal experience, after deciding to leave NTCC, my first instinct was to frantically look for churches that met the NTCC mold. I had maintained some ‘friendships’ with people still in the organization, and I did not want to appear unsaved in their eyes. So I knew I needed to find a new church quick. Many of the places I attended were either just as misinformed or manipulative as the NTCC. And the ones that weren't, I picked apart with my judgments and criticism.
It took me quite a while to get it in my head that I had left the organization for a reason. And the reason was that I had erred by continuing to attend even after the little angel on my shoulder screamed that I should get out of dodge. Yes, I had messed up, and I had to tell myself that it was okay to step back, take a breath, and admit a profound mistake. After that, the pressure to appease that NTCC voice in the back of my head began to relent.
Seek Help.
Although my family was happy to ‘have me back’, I still did not want to delve into all the lies, abuse, mischaracterizations, and hurt I felt about having attended the church. However, it is through sites like Fact Net and Jeff’s blog that allow one to decompress and move on. (Fasten your seatbelt, we’re about to plunge deep.)
Molestation is a terrible thing so I do not use this example lightly, but it is worthy of a comparison. For years I suppressed the memory of my own molestation and chose not to deal with it. Only God knows how that has affected my personal relationships and approach to life. After years of trying to move past NTCC and feeling guilty and nervous with every visit to my mother (since I always ran into members and former friends), it finally came to a head when I called Jeff. I had always wanted to believe that the leaders were just misguided and had no clue the damage they caused people. Even after Rev. Parr castigated me for withdrawing and attending fewer services, while pregnant, and after having lost my son’s twin, I was angry but chalked it up to his inexperience as a leader.
But I always knew in the back of my head that the Elders were intimately involved in every aspect of a given church, especially a servicemen’s work. Anyway, Jeff told me of the land transfer between the NTCC and Kekel, and I became sick to my stomach. I abruptly ended our call and cried my heart out. Some 3 years after leaving the organization, I finally realized they were completely wrong. NTCC was not the voice of God, but instead the brainchild of
Apologize.
Depending on how ‘zealous’ you were you may need to sign many “I’m sorry!” letters. I had to apologize to my mother for acting in a disrespectful and smug way to her. To my sisters, who sat with me after one of my miscarriages, (something no pastor ever did, since I miscarried a few days before conference), even though I told them they were sinners and barely maintained contact with them. Finally, I had to forgive myself for being a jerk and for being prideful and dumb, at the same time. During my time in NTCC I thought I was so superior to others, that I had the answers, when I truly did not. Forgiving oneself for ‘wasting time’ is one of the hardest things to do. But ultimately, the time is already gone, it cannot be retrieved.
Stop wishing and start living again. If you do not know how to begin, simply start by emulating someone who is happy, helpful, and honest. It will become easier over time to discern genuine and legit people. As a matter of fact, those few honest and lovely people you met in NTCC may have actually left by now. See if you can find them. The woman who invited me was always so sweet and forthright, even while in the org. She left approximately a year after I did. We are still great friends to this day.
Written By LaQueshia Jeffries and posted by Jeff Collins
7/10/2009
The Damage Control And Smear Campaign
Oberhauser’s Bully Pulpit Antics
HERE’S THE REST OF THE STORY. The beggars were a man, two women and a baby. Church was over and everyone was outside. While Sis. Oberhauser was inside the church with the young woman, the man and the older woman were out sitting in the car joking and laughing. Bro. Oberhauser, my family and everyone else standing outside saw this plainly. My family was already in our van getting ready to drive away. Sis. Oberhauser got the van keys and started heading for their van. At that point, my husband beckoned for Bro. Oberhauser who came over and explained that he was not going to give the people money, but was sending his wife to follow them to the gas station to pay for $5 in gas. (WHAT?) My husband at that point said he did not like this situation and told Bro. Oberhauser that we would follow his wife if it was okay with him. Bro. Oberhauser stayed back at the church.
Once at the station, Sis. Oberhauser seemingly was about to pull up beside the beggars at the pump and Jeff quickly motioned for her to park directly in front of the store. We pulled up beside her and he either vocally or through hand gestures told her to just go on inside and pay for the gas. When she came out, Jeff told her (and I can’t remember his exact words) that she just needed to leave at this point.
One Week Later. I went to the Sunday night service alone because my husband was staying home with our son. Bro. Oberhauser was standing outside and stopped me before I walked in by saying something like “You can just get on down the road now”. I looked at him puzzled and asked him what did he say. He repeated similarly “You can just go on and hit the road now”. At my second puzzled expression he began to explain that those words or something similar had been spoken by Jeff to his wife. He asked me if I remember Jeff saying those things. I told him I didn’t remember exactly what Jeff had said to Sis. Oberhauser and that he needed to ask Jeff. Bro. Oberhauser then went on to tell me (in a very clipped tone) that he didn’t talk to his wife like that and don’t allow others to speak to her in that manner. He asked if Jeff talks to me that way. He indicated that perhaps the change he was noticing in me was due to problems with my husband. He asked if Jeff was abusive, etc. I answered no and that any changes he might perceive had nothing to do with my family life. He called his wife over, who was talking to someone in the parking lot, to verify what he was saying. Bro. Oberhauser then told me that he would talk to Jeff about this face to face and did not want me to mention it to him. I foolishly agreed to do that. To Jeff: I apologize.
Well Bro. Oberhauser, I kept my word but you didn’t. I waited everyday for Jeff to say something about your promised face-to-face discussion, but it didn’t happen. About two weeks later, Jeff got his face-to-face discussion in a Sunday Morning sermon. Imagine that! As I sat there listening to Oberhauser go on and on about how you should talk to people and not offending people with your words, I never saw any alarm register on my husband’s face. On the way home, I asked my husband if Oberhauser had talked to him about the above mentioned situation. He said no. I then told Jeff about my conversation with the Oberhausers and that I felt this morning’s “introductory message” was for him.
To date, Bro. Oberhauser has yet to “defend his wife’s honor”. Firstly Bro. Oberhauser, you owe your wife an apology for sending her into that situation alone. A policeman friend and brother here in the city can give you countless situations of good Samaritans being victimized all the time by scam artists. The handful (literally) of people standing outside of the church was more important to you than the safety of your wife. Where were your priorities? Can you spell
B-A-D J-U-D-G-M-E-N-T ?
Secondly, you made my husband the ogre in the whole situation. He was only trying look out for YOUR WIFE, something you failed to do. So what if he spoke with urgency to her during a time when a seemingly innocent situation could turn bad in a moment. Then to add insult to injury, you nailed him from the pulpit. Maybe you had taken the time to see your fault in the matter and wanted to avoid having Jeff enlighten you on your bad judgment. Who knows?
Thirdly, you confronted me when I was alone about a displeasure you had with my husband. You vented your anger towards Jeff to me. You attempted to villainize Jeff in our marital relationship under the disguise of giving me pastoral counseling. If that wasn’t enough, you requested that I betray my husband and not tell him about any of it because you wanted to talk to him “face to face”. As I said before, I foolishly agreed to that. Maybe I was so uncomfortable at that point, I would agree to anything to end the conversation. Nevertheless, I was wrong. Bro. Oberhauser you pitted me against my husband at that point and THAT WAS WRONG!
Admitting wrong when it’s plainly before your face is a bit much for many NTCC ministers. How truly sad it is. And that’s the rest of the story. Good day. (ph)
Mrs Collins